(the bell tolls, lol.) it may concern". To all my friends here, Swedish or English native spoken people, Smiley heart <3.. Make sure YOU heal the wounds from your past properly. Otherwise YOU may attract/chose wrong partners or push away the right ones. Might require confronting the past straight on - preferably with some professional guidance of course. After working thru that, you´d be surprised how normal your personal and own family life can be despite a rocky past!